Proverbs 25-11-15 A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold in a setting of silver. Like a gold ring or an ornament of gold is a wise reprover to a listening ear. Like the cold of snow in the time of harvest is a faithful messenger to those who send him; he refreshes the soul of his masters. Like clouds and wind without rain is a man who boasts of a gift he does not give. With patience a ruler may be persuaded, and a soft tongue will break a bone.
Colossians 3:19
God wants us to exercise good healthy relationships with our spouse Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in your sight O Lord, my rock and my redeemer. Psalm 19:14
There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing. Proverbs 12:18
Can I encourage to use words to be an encouragement our words matter. In marriage, our words should be used to build each other up, we can truly share our feelings, needs, and dreams with our partner, however they should not be used or interpreted as a weapon to cause harm. My question to all these kingdom marriages will your words bring healing to your spouse, or are they more like the thrusts of a sword?
Be aware that we must invest in prayer as kingdom marriages take much prayer and supplication as the enemy is seeking to destroy them as a reflection on church and non believers to say that the God we serve is not at work, the word is he is still at work we need to activate our faith.