How can you determine if you are really living the dream in your marriage?

James 1-5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives generously to all without reproach, and it will be given him.
There are so many people that are not really honest to God about their relationship. The truth is they are trying to profess that things are perfect when in fact they are the opposite. It might seem true to hear the reality is different. A Healthy Relationship Is Easy.
A Soulmate you should be able to end their sentences Each Other’s Minds.
Real love and romance live never dies
the last one is that a healthy relationship does have any fights or arguments

The reality is we cannot see the problems that are happening underneath the surface, there might be these large ripples and waves and they take strategy and planning to work them out
1 Peter 3-7 Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.
1 Corinthians 13-4-8
Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.

Psalms 34-4
I sought the Lord, and he answered me and delivered me from all my fears. This is the key seeking the lord and he will bring peace to the storm in your life and enable balance.