Preserving the Godly love in your marriage
How do you preserve the longevity of love in your marriage when conflict arises?
Ask, “When is a good time to talk about this issue?” …
Be Patient. Communicate clearly, building a trust that you feel safe to share the issues at hand. learn to forgive and fasting and prayer is the nest tool to use
Some marriages struggle to survive with conflict whether it be financial, emotional, sexual and more. The problem often behind the struggle is PRIDE this is Pride is often considered a negative force in human existence—the opposite of humility and a source of social friction it can be viewed as feeling that you respect yourself and deserve to be respected by other people, most couples struggles with accepting that they are in the wrong, not knowing how to make things right, The struggle to forgive past hurts and develop.
Be consistent in your walk in living a Godly life with the right intentions Own it. If you’ve messed up, own it. Own it fully because the offense is against a Holy God don’t explain it away. Speak Truth. If you’ve been hurt, go to the person humbly and talk tothem. Listen to them. Give grace. Be quick to forgive
1 Peter 3 8-9 NIV. Finally, all of you, be like-minded, be sympathetic, love one another, be compassionate and humble. 9 Do not repay evil with evil or insult with insult. On the contrary, repay evil with blessing, because to this you were called so that you may inherit a blessing.Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered.
Proverbs 14:29 NIV. Whoever is patient has great understanding, but one who is quick-tempered displays folly.
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